Teach Me To Love You
Love is a decision. Decide to live it.
Teach Me To Love You helps couples express love to each other through deliberate, Spirit-filled, affectionate programs, so your marriage grows deeper, warmer and stronger with every year.
Featured event
LOVE AND FIRE CONFERENCE 2026
19 November 2026 · THE GOVERNING CHURCH,THE GOVERNING PLACE, RIGIP BEHIND NNPC MEGA STATION. DOGON KARFE, JOS PLATEAU STATE.
Explore this eventThe heart of it
Most couples do not fall out of love. They just stop being intentional.
Busy schedules. Family pressure. Unspoken hurts. Over time, the small daily acts that once made your spouse feel treasured begin to fade, and no one quite notices when it happened.
Love is not only a feeling that arrives on its own. It is something you learn, practise and express on purpose. That is exactly what we help you do.
Who We Are
What You Will Find Here
Love is something you learn, practise and express on purpose.
Learn to Love Deliberately
Practical teaching that shows you how to express love in ways your spouse can truly feel.
Grow Together in the Spirit
Programs rooted in God's Word that draw you closer to each other and closer to Christ.
Build a Legacy
Strong marriages raise strong families, and strong families build strong communities.
Our foundation
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.”Ephesians 5:25–27
This is why we exist. Jesus did not only suggest that we love. He commanded it, and He showed us how.
Meet the lead stewards
Guided by The Love Coaches
Bamshak and Stephanie Bigwan lead this ministry as Lead Stewards. They are known simply as The Love Coaches, and they walk with couples with warmth, honesty and a heart for godly homes.
Meet Bamshak and StephanieTake the first step
Your marriage deserves more than survival.
Take the first step today. Talk to one of our coaches and let us help you love better, starting now.